I Love You So Much I …

Posted by on Jan 29, 2019 in This was on my mind | No Comments

Y To bloom.  To feel good about yourself.  To be in a healthy relationship in which you feel valued and cared for.  To be comfortable in your own skin.  To respect and honor both yourself and others.  To bloom. This is a word from a woman who’s seen things designed to help you get it […]

On Anxiety

Posted by on Dec 28, 2018 in This was on my mind, Uncategorized | No Comments

Anxiety is a car full of common concerns whose brakes have failed.          The chronically concerned. The worn-out worried. The unceasingly distressed. Millions of people suffer from anxiety and depression and I am one of them.  Like most members of Anxiety Society, I can take some small concern and turn it into a disaster. It doesn’t […]


Posted by on Mar 11, 2018 in My Cause | No Comments

I know these things seem unrelated but I don’t believe they are. They, too, feel like intractable problems but I don’t believe that either. ¨A man climbs into his car with his estranged wife and their children and drives them all into a lake. ¨An eight-year-old boy hangs himself after being bullied. ¨A man returns […]

Ten Things I Learned in 27 years of Marriage

Posted by on Feb 21, 2018 in This was on my mind | No Comments

January 20, 2016 Ten Things I Learned in 27 Years of Marriage Number 1: I had more June Cleaver, Claire Huxtable genes than I thought. Nothing like love to make you feel oddly domestic in ways you swore you’d never do. Number 2: I don’t know where they got this from but I did not […]

Today is a singularity

Posted by on Feb 21, 2018 in This was on my mind | No Comments

January 25, 2016 “Silly has Value” Today is a singularity. There will be other days. For most, but not all of us, there will be a tomorrow. But Today, this particular twenty-four hours is a one-time thing. Once it’s gone you cannot get it back. Of course, this idea is neither novel nor hard to […]