Forgiveness

Posted by on Feb 21, 2018 in This was on my mind | No Comments

January 30, 2016 Forgiveness Forgiveness is a peaceful thing. It neither excuses nor rationalizes. It just frees you from the emotional baggage of other’s wrongs. Forgiveness has nothing to do with the other person acknowledging their wrong. It’s all about how the person who has been wronged decides to feel about it. You forgive someone […]

The Disposable Man Theory

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February 1, 2016 The Disposable Man Theory   When I was 16, I thought men were disposable. . If one did anything I didn’t like, he was out. I disposed of them, regularly. By 26, I thought men were indispensible. Wanted marriage and a baby. Not having one made me feel like a failure, fleetingly. […]

Better Than Yesterday

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EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY SO I POST THOSE WORDS HERE. NO PARTICULAR THEME OR REASON MY THOUGHTS ARE NOT RELATED TO ONE ANOTHER. THEY ARE ALL DATED AND TITLED THOUGH SO YOU CAN TELL THEM APART. ************** February 8, 2016 Better Than Yesterday Part I “She Doesn’t Live Here Anymore” […]

Its On Us

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************************************** It’s On Us Sooner Than We Think       It IS on us, just like Joe Biden said. ItIsOnUs.org. It is on us to step up and step in when we see the potential for abuse. I’d like to take it one step further though. I think it is on us to step […]

Me By the Numbers

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Me By the Numbers Age: 56 Height: 5’1” Weight: 5 pounds more than I’d like. 10 pounds more than my mother would like. Kids: 6 (4 that came pre-assembled; 2 BigE and I made from scratch) Years on Divorce Court: 9 Years on the bench before Divorce Court: 8 Years Married: 27 Years Happily Married: less […]