Housekeeping and Homework

First the Housekeeping

As you know this blog thing is a work in progress. I am trying to keep my blog topics e  Ask JudgeLynn advice thing separate. So …..

1. Several of you gave me some good suggestions. I am implementing some of them.  The first is that I’ve added a separate Ask Judge Lynn section to this page. (see above) So all requests for advice should go there.

2. Again, I am a lone soul on this site so I can’t get to every question. Please do not be offended. I do the best I can with the time I have.

3. NO rudeness or wretchedness …(Actually you guys have been great) but every once in a while …

Second Homework

No, I am not going to ask you to write a paper. I want to talk about something Vernon said. He commented earlier that he felt men were getting bashed a bit (That’s my word not his) by some of the comments made after my Weirdness at The Grocery Store Post.

He wanted to get some time for the good guys out there. I wanted to honor that. Because it’s true. Lots of good men out there. I am always afraid when we speak about a certain trend that people who belong to the larger group (in this case men) get offended because we discuss a subset of that group (men like the guy at the grocery store)

I talk about relationships a lot and when I do gender comes up. It concerns me that there is so much Us vs. Them … Women vs. Men out there.

That’s why I want to talk about Homework. The work we do at home. My mantra?

Neither side wins if the other side loses.

I’ve been married 25 years:

There are times we worked with each other.

There were times we worked on each other.

There are some very dude like things he does that annoy the living daylights out of me. Every time he does one I remind myself of some of the stuff I do that probably annoy him.

Like this blogging business!!! LOL

Just want everyone to know that I am big on giving both sides their due.

I am also a believer that if you’re not married or are alone that there is happiness in that as well. So I am going  talk about other stuff too.  

Well that’s it for today ….

You guys have a great Friday.

JLT