THE DISPOSABLE MAN THEORY

Posted by on May 29, 2016 in This was on my mind | No Comments

The Disposable Man Theory When I was 16, I thought men were disposable. . If one did anything I didn’t like, he was out. I disposed of them, regularly. By 26, I thought men were indispensible. Wanted marriage and a baby. Not having one made me feel like a failure, fleetingly. At 36 I had […]

BETTER THAN YESTERDAY

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Better Than Yesterday “She Doesn’t Live Here Anymore” Shanika asked for my thoughts on self-improvement. When anyone asks me that I invariably start with this. All improvement requires you to embrace what’s wrong with you. Owning your weaknesses is not always an easy sell. It’s no fun to stare at the least of yourself but […]

IT IS ON US

Posted by on May 29, 2016 in This was on my mind | No Comments

It IS on us, just like Joe Biden said. ItIsOnUs.org. It is on us to step up and step in when we see the potential for abuse. I’d like to take it one step further though. I think it is on us to step in sooner. Changing the culture requires a comprehensive approach with an […]

Me By The Numbers

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Numbers by themselves don’t often mean much but sometimes it’s fun to look at the ones swirling around you …. Age: 56 Height: 5’1” Weight: 5 pounds more than I’d like. 10 pounds more than my mother would like. Kids: 6 (4 that came pre-assembled; 2 BigE and I made from scratch) Years on Divorce Court: […]

Ken

Posted by on May 20, 2016 in Uncategorized | No Comments

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